Episode 15 – The One About Learning To Be Charming

Meet Dre Domenichini

Dre was born Autistic and found dealing with people very hard. Disappointed in his progress reaching his personal goals, he decided to harness the hyper focusing of his condition to study human behaviour. 7 Years into his journey, he is now disarmingly capable at figuring out what makes people tick and has been producing a podcast about becoming a more effective human being.


You can find out more about him here:



Fav quotes from this episode:

‘Adulting for me is coming to own who you are, your talents and your problems.’

‘No doesn’t always mean no!’

‘I’m an adult but when I get overwhelmed I regress to funny childhood behaviour’

‘I’m an adult but I’m not always polite in telling people I need some space!’


In this episode we talk about:

  • Taking responsibility for personal development and being in charge of your own goals and results.
  • Figuring out who you really are
  • Learning to be charming, and how behaviours can become natural
  • Challenging yourself to connect with other people, and overcoming built in protection mechanisms
  • How to build rapport and trust when it feels difficult
  • The concept of failure and learning things which are outside of your comfort zone

Plus, we chat about learning and admitting that you are wrong, our introvert/extrovert bank accounts and our favourite books!



The 48 laws of power

The power of the actor

About the author, Ebonie

Ebonie is the go-to Coach for Misfits and Mavens. She’s the positively disruptive creator of The Misfit to Maven Way, The Value Filter™ system and author of ‘Misfit to Maven: From ARGH to AHHH.’

She dedicates her days to inspiring and enabling people who have forgotten who they really are to feel less ARGH!! and more AHHH!!!

It is her mission to help you live a fully rounded, three-dimensional, successful and self-governed life where you can thrive.


  1. Dre on 03/15/2018 at 10:35 AM

    Thanks for having me on Ebonie, had a blast

    • Ebonie Allard on 03/24/2018 at 9:23 AM

      It was great chatting with you Dre!

  2. […] Check out Dre’s appearance on the excellent ‘Adulting with Ebonie’ podcast […]

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